Monday, October 8, 2007

How Am I As A Listener..

Well based on what we have studied I'm kinda mix of everything, I can sometimes look like as if I'm not totally interested about what the other person is talking about, but most of the time even if it was just a little bit of pretending, I try to look as if I'm very interested. You see I don't want to look bored or most of all disrespectful to the speaker. I guess it is bad enough that you are not really paying attention to what the person is talking about, but to just stare and not have any reaction, then it will only puzzle the speaker. Beside I try to listen to the speaker though there are other things which catches my attention, because I always keep in mind that what if I was the one speaking, then I wouldn't want the others not really listening to me and is busy with other things.
When I'm speaking, at least listen to what I'm saying so I'll know that I am not wasting my time with you.
But though I've said that I'm kinda mix of everything, I don't think I was ever violent or I do some violent reaction when listening to someone else's story.

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